I Am Woman Forum SEX...

Oh wow... where to begin.

I LOVE IT, well when its good.... ha ha... Right now - it is amazing... and wanting more - but both of our schedules are so freaking busy - that I dont nearly get it enough - but when i do - he def. makes up for the lack of times.

I'm sorry, but is everybody here a Scorpio?! Where are my two-sided-deviant Geminis?! (probably like me, off having sex with themselves). Big smiles, gonna have to land me a scorpio! (right now one side of me loves a sagittarius, and the other one loves an aquarius) there's no accounting for taste! (hmm, we shud start an astrology thread.

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LMAO! I'm a Gemini! Ah, we are sometimes happier when we are having sex with ourselves! ::tongue::

One side of me loves my sagittarius husband (he's my perfect opposite), the other falls in love with the men I create 'cuz they're just so damn sexy! ::biggrin:: My imagination can sometimes run away with itself. Right now, my husband and I are on completely opposite schedules. We barely sleep in the same bed at the same time. And we have a teenager in the house, so it takes some creativity!

But in all honesty, I could take it or leave it. Sometimes, I'm a very sexual person. Other times, I'm not. I guess that's the Gemini in me. When I get it, it's damn good. When I don't get it, it doesn't really matter. Weird, I know. You asked! ::tongue::

::biggrin:: Love It love it love it!!!!! This is one area in a relationship where it has to be right for me...gotta have the same drive as me which is basically OVERDRIVE!!!! lol...

Hey Hey... I am a Gemini too ::biggrin:: (actually my birthday is on Monday)...

Happy Birthday on Monday Nicole!! Mine is on Sunday. Racheal Goss's is tmw. glad i found some twins on here!

Haha Who needs sex? I am just going to hang out with the Erotic Goddess..lmao
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Happy Birthday to both of you! Mine was yesterday! ::biggrin::

Happy birthday and belated birthday to all the Geminis up in here!!! My bf's dad is one...that man is more of a mystery then me (Scorpio).! Half the time I not sure which half I'm dealing with!!! His son, my bf is a Sag...we need all the prayers you can spare. LOL JK That boy...when he is fired up, ROCKS MY WORLD!!! We balnce ourselves out as well. Sexually he is my equal. I have yet to find a man who could match me, until I met him. He says I tire him out. I guess I should have mercy on him...NOT!

IDK...sex for me is more then physical. I can't explain it...but for me I am very much intuned to him and knows what he wants without him saying a word. I reach a level of conscienceness and my senses are off the chart. It is like we are one...do any of this makes sense to you ladies?

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Actually, it makes perfect sense, dear. I understand completely. Now, making love... that is something that can happen outside of the bedroom, too. My man and I were at a wedding of a dear friend about four years ago, and when we danced, we stared into each other's eyes the entire time. It's one of the few times we have ever danced together (he's not much for dancing). Later on, several other friends told us that when they looked upon us that night, they could see more love between us than in the bride and groom, who have since divorced. They said they had never seen two people look at one another like that. I cherish every day I spend with him, no matter our schedules. "I love you"s are said more than once a day for the nearly six years we have been together. I call him my husband, but we are not married yet. Our wedding is in March. But in a sense, we already are married.

I thought I once knew what love was, but I was wrong. Do you know what love is, because now I do. ::biggrin::

Sorry, I got all mushy on y'all! LOL Damned men. They do that to you!

I really don't have a reason to post here...cuz I'm a virgin, which is fitting considering my age.

But does it actually hurt the first time?

Sex is amzing, needed, refreshing etc etc etc. It ::mad:: is everything that goes along with it that I dislike.

lol...yess we were very tired all the time.. Yira ::tongue:: and i may need those batteries soon he doesn't even want to be my beneficial friend anymore lol ::biggrin::

~~theta

I will spare you some girlfriend. You know...a bat to his head might change his mind. LOL

Jinx, that is how I am with my guy. We too are not married yet. Often people think we are. We have that moments when no else is there too during his family get togethers...or maybe I stand out as the only balck one there. LOL Anyways, we just are lost in our on world and it FEELS good. Congrats on on finding "the one" darling. Sex is always best when it is with the special guy meant for you, because he will aim to make you happy always.

Pssst....sex in your 30's is the BOMB!!!!

wow.. ummm.. my sex life has been a very rockey one.. didnt know what to do when i was younger.. now i do.. had some very bad things happen .. but now over it.. heheh..

oh and i love it now... i kind of have to stop my self from wanting it all the time.. heheh.. b/c i charish the relationship with my BF and i dont want it to just be about sex. even thought it is great.... to see how great it is look at his back. heheheheh. my bad..

p.s. it is way way better when you love the guy.... and when they know how to touch you.. get a guy like that and you will be in heaven.. like i am

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Damn straight it is! That's when we hit our sexual peak!!! ::biggrin:: Oh, and my man just turned 30 last December! LOL Yeah, yeah, robbin' the cradle. He was graduating high school when I got married the first time! LMAO!

Ok...Once again, I feel out of place. I HATE sex. I can go months without it and be just fine. I think something is wrong with me...My boyfriend wants it all the time, but I just can't stand to have someone touch me.

Girl...I LOVE IT!!! I don't think I get ENOUGH! I kinda wish I was like you then I wouldn't feel so deprived like I do sometimes. LOL I could never understand that, I had a friend who went years without it and was married, I could not see how she held out or how he did not leave her after all this time.

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I thought I was alone on this one. I don't neccesarily hate it, but I can go months and months without it and be fine. My husband (RIP sweetie) was a fiend. Like almost every friggin night. Maybe that's why I'm not missing it?

I'm sorry for your lost V.E. and I hope you are doing okay since the lost. Alot of women are like tah, where they don't need sex or deisre it as much. I think only a small few actually likeit and crave it as I do and some others here. Maybe we sex addicts or something. I think you and T.Jones just have low sex drives. Nothing wrong with that. I'm glad to be learning that not all women think the same about sex and/or have the same sex drive.