I Am Woman Forum Am I a terrible woman?

I don't think your a home wrecker, seems like his life was already a mess before you came in. But you should let him clean up his mess and deal with unfinished business, before getting involved with him. He has a history with his wife and no matter how bad things are, there is still love there, that is why he hasn't left yet.

You can let him know that you are interested, but that he has to be willing to make the changes he has to in order to be with you. Never settle for less when your worth : )

I agree with the fact you should back off and let him handle his issues with his current love now. If he leaves her for you, there is no stopping him from doing the same thing to you. Keep in mind, at one time those two were happy once and nothing seem like things could go wrong. What you see now, may not be the real him in relationships. Respect the fact there is someone esle in his life and try to forget him for now. Right now you are basing how good he is while you are nuts over this guy. Step back, let time pass and see how he handles things with her. If he is not handling his biz with her as he should, nine times out of ten, he will deal poorly with you too. Write or read or join a youth club and help kids, but so something to get your mind off him before you do some thing stupid and you regret it later in life. Do you want me to mail you some holy water? LOL

Thanks ladies! After alot of thought I have concluded that I just need to leave this one alone for now.  Once again thank you both = )