I Am Woman Forum A little question about sex

I've been reading through all you girls advice, and I am going to ask a question. Okay, a blush worthy question. But you girls would know how to deal with this better than anyone. Oh dear, here's my question. I'm a virgin and honestly I want to know how to make the first time as painless as possible. I know its gonna hurt, but is there anything to do to make it better? Thanks to anyone who answers. I'm a little nervous about posting this.

I don't think that there is a way to make it less painful and even at that it hurts for the first 2 minutes or so and then your done. I have more to say but my boss is coming and I have to get back to work..lol

 

~~Theta

not sure if there is a way to make it less painful the first time 'round... i guess make sure you are plenty excited and just go with it... the pain will ease up after a while...

good luck

I would suggest that you also purchase some KY jelly for lubrication that way even if you are tense from being nervous, he will glide in gently and slipped right past your barrier so that you get the pain part over with up front. I strongly suggest that you focus on the moment and not so much the pain. Play some sexy music, throw in some candles, set the mood for a seductive yet sensual time to help you both get into that mind frame. The pain will only last a couple of minutes, but if he is good, it would be worth the pain. Anytime you feel nervous, stop and breathe. Just remember that sex has to be great if all us women are still having it despite that first time. Practice with toys to get use to the feeling of having a penis inside you, that will get you partly ready and eliminate some of those fears of yours. Don't worry about having a orgasm yet. If you do, great, if not still it is all gravy. I sincerely hope that you have a happy and remember-able first time.

I wish there was a way but there is not. Also there is no guarantee that it will hurt. I had a friend who did a lot more activities down there prior to having sex for the first time (such as guys fingering her). She told me it hurt like hell. I had absolutely no experience with that and it didn't hurt when I had sex the first time.  I did bleed a lot compared to her though. She said she only had a couple drops.

Just make sure you are with a guy who knows you are a virgin so he can be gentle. The first time is scary enough. even if it is with someone you care about.

Thank you girls so much. I appreciate it. :)