http://slow.writerscafe.org/jlobdell The original writings of author Joshua Lobdell en-us Copyright 2026 WritersCafe.org 1776071530 WritersCafe.org RSS Generator 15 It seems the species we like to call fangirl has divided itself into two distinct groups. Of course being fangirls they chose to battle over which Dystopian Universe is superior. http://slow.writerscafe.org/writing/jlobdell/1443928/ at the end of the day fangirls can be a little weird, and there are some thing you just have to live with if you get involved with one of them...this is the most important one http://slow.writerscafe.org/writing/jlobdell/1436563/ Fangirls take their fandoms pretty serious and the worst thing a guy can do is disrespect one of them http://slow.writerscafe.org/writing/jlobdell/1434053/ My ex wife use to call me unlovable a lot when we were getting divorced and I was dating others...it made me so mad that I sat down and just played with the idea of repeating that over and over http://slow.writerscafe.org/writing/jlobdell/1431380/ We continue our look at the rules for dating fangirls and let you know what phrases you are going to have to know http://slow.writerscafe.org/writing/jlobdell/1429520/ This is all about the one thing that is hardest to repair and rebuild...once trust is broken... http://slow.writerscafe.org/writing/jlobdell/1426623/ Fangirls are pretty awesome, but one can get into a lot of trouble by not following the rules.... http://slow.writerscafe.org/writing/jlobdell/1426162/ sometimes you just have to turn pain into art http://slow.writerscafe.org/writing/jlobdell/1424816/ Fangirls are pretty awesome, but one can get into a lot of trouble by not following the rules.... http://slow.writerscafe.org/writing/jlobdell/1422814/ So this was a break up poem I found in one of my binders...When I took out all of the swearing and re-wrote the second part It is now about a unpleasant situation that unfolded over the summer of 2014 http://slow.writerscafe.org/writing/jlobdell/1421702/ I wrote this on a napkin on the first date with the woman that would become my wife, and the mother of my child http://slow.writerscafe.org/writing/jlobdell/1421264/ So sometimes I spend too much time inside my own head, and most times these are the kind of conversations I am having with myself http://slow.writerscafe.org/writing/jlobdell/1420831/ For me it is about one breakup specifically...but really it is about breaking up in general http://slow.writerscafe.org/writing/jlobdell/1420359/ Breakups are tough, and the fill you with self doubt when you just want today to feel like yesterday http://slow.writerscafe.org/writing/jlobdell/1420050/ crushes are fun, they make your heart race...but some of them are just that and no more...no matter what else you want them to be...I broke up with someone for her and I broke up with her for someone http://slow.writerscafe.org/writing/jlobdell/1419279/ This is a tough one...after a really ugly incident I broke up with the girl that would become the mother of my child and my wife...Reading this I don't know why I went back... http://slow.writerscafe.org/writing/jlobdell/1418958/ Sometimes we do things we are not proud of...this is about using someone else to help get over someone http://slow.writerscafe.org/writing/jlobdell/1417241/ every guy has the one that got away...this one is about mine http://slow.writerscafe.org/writing/jlobdell/1416178/ This is one about finding and courting a crush http://slow.writerscafe.org/writing/jlobdell/1415811/ I am a jumper, I jump into things because I am all about living in the moment http://slow.writerscafe.org/writing/jlobdell/1415126/ a reflection on a really hard relationship and a very tough break up http://slow.writerscafe.org/writing/jlobdell/1414211/ This one is all about that feeling, when you meet someone that you want to be with http://slow.writerscafe.org/writing/jlobdell/1413862/ I wrote this about the most traumatic breakup of my life, and no it is not about my ex wife but my ex mistress http://slow.writerscafe.org/writing/jlobdell/1413316/ The worst sin committed in my life Breaking the promises I made my wife Giving up on my vows sworn Her trust in me forever torn It was never a part of my plan To fail so completely as a man When I overreacted to our situation That led us to that nasty confrontation Wh.. http://slow.writerscafe.org/writing/jlobdell/1412823/ How do you navigate a complicated relationship? It's a lot harder than you think...and you run the entire gambit of emotions http://slow.writerscafe.org/writing/jlobdell/1411846/ Love in the 21st Century http://slow.writerscafe.org/writing/jlobdell/1411818/ this is me http://slow.writerscafe.org/writing/jlobdell/1411462/ I wrote this poem after a terrible fight with the woman I should have married. In my head it took nearly 2 years to get over her, but reality tell me that now 12 years later maybe I never got over her http://slow.writerscafe.org/writing/jlobdell/1410945/ This poem is special to me because it was the first poem I wrote after a long absence of writing poetry. I wrote it like four years ago now about the girl who made me see my marriage was over http://slow.writerscafe.org/writing/jlobdell/1410645/ I wrote this poem the day my divorce became a reality and while I was still in pain from getting my happy divorce tattoo http://slow.writerscafe.org/writing/jlobdell/1410449/ I wrote this about a girl while we were in the middle of trying to better understand and define our relationship. http://slow.writerscafe.org/writing/jlobdell/1410008/ So lately I have been all about the work I wrote before I got married. Which is stuff I wrote over 10 years ago. I like them cause a lot of them could have be written in the present. http://slow.writerscafe.org/writing/jlobdell/1218381/ I wrote this piece after getting out of the hospital and rehab. My life was kind of a mess and I was looking at the choices I had made and what lessons could be learned from them. http://slow.writerscafe.org/writing/jlobdell/1216305/