I totally agree. Every white hair on my head has its own story and its own meaning. I enjoy every one and who cares what they look like to people who weren't even there at the time?
It's a long time since I looked in the mirror and recognised who it was. This old guy keeps following me around and peering back at me from the mirror. No idea who it is, but I won't give him the satisfaction of a greeting. I just grump at him, and he walks away...
Funny thing, my dad and I were having a conversation on these lines just a couple of weeks ago. One of his favourite claims is that since he started drawing his pension, he never bothers looking in the mirror any more; and my usual reply is to tell him he's as handsome as ever.
I think the last verse of this poem sums it all up perfectly.
i like that....as we get older, we may not look as spry with perfect features. We become weathered and a bit withered, but our face is a book that has had many stories read from it...and the pages to get a bit crumply---and dog eared....but we are expressive volumes.
Born in Kentucky, teen years in Loveland Ohio, old in age, young in mind, I'm not human, I don't believe in religion, love. faith or trust, I do believe in: lil' kids, ol' dogs, leprechauns, and water.. more..