Blurred VisionA Story by Lipstick_LesbianWhat does it mean to be an American?“What right does this guy have to tell us what it means to be American?” My friend pondered aloud as she twirled her hair around her finger in boredom. “His accent is so thick, he can’t even pronounce the word ‘culture’ correctly”. I stifled a giggle as I sunk deeper into my seat in the back of the large lecture hall. At the front of the classroom, a short, stout, soft-spoken man waited patiently for his students to settle down. Our Cultural Anthropology professor was gentle and unassuming, and his fragile frame was almost completely engulfed by the projector screen behind him. On the screen, a single foreign word loomed large above the small man’s head: ETHNOCENTRISM. On the same slide, pictures were haphazardly arranged to fill in the white spaces: apple pie, cotton candy, a baseball bat, Mickey Mouse, a handgun, a trailer park, and a keg of beer.
Our professor had just informed us that these images represented the “America” he expected to find when he arrived here from Nigeria two years prior. Upon hearing this, the class erupted. Some students laughed, although I suspect that their laughter was due to nervousness. Others sheepishly nodded or shrugged, as if in total agreement with the way their country had been portrayed. Most students, however, vehemently opposed this gross trivialization of the American identity, and they pushed back against it with all their might. When the commotion finally died down, we were quite memorably introduced to the notion of ethnocentrism: passing judgments about another culture from the narrow perspective of one’s own cultural system. That word -- ethnocentrism -- changed my life. I couldn’t think about my country the same way after that. For my entire life, I had viewed the rest of the world through red, white, and blue tinted glasses. I realized that as a country, our superiority complex was part of what made us the laughing stock of the international community. It’s one thing to be isolationist, but to be so nationalistic that it borders on self-righteousness was despicable to me. Who were we to preach that the American way was the only way? That day, my little American bubble was burst. Under the bald-eagle eye of George W. Bush, we embarked on an international crusade to spread the Gospel of Democracy to countries that we assumed needed our help. Yes, these countries did need help. But was it our help they needed? Was our intervention truly in their best interest, or was it actually in ours? In our crusade, we had viewed the rest of the world from a skewed perspective, assuming that our cultural norms would sufficiently inform the decisions we made on a global scale. We neglected to realize that what works for us may not work for them. And when the transition from their way of life to ours was less than seamless, we took minimal responsibility for it. I was so ashamed that I felt compelled to write a letter of apology to every country we had ever imposed ourselves upon in such a way. I was itching for an escape from the American bubble, and especially needed a change of scenery. A few months later, I traveled outside the country for the first time: to Prague, Vienna, Budapest, and Italy. My ability to immerse myself in those worlds and those cultures was due entirely to what my Cultural Anthropology class had taught me about my national identity. I was proud to be an American, but not so proud that it clouded my vision. My awareness of ethnocentrism enabled me to appreciate my country for its differences, and other countries for theirs. That one word in that one class schooled me for the rest of my life. © 2012 Lipstick_LesbianFeatured Review
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5 Reviews Added on May 1, 2012 Last Updated on May 1, 2012 AuthorLipstick_LesbianLos Angeles, CAAboutFierce femme with a fabulous fiancée. No photos or fonts here. Just words. [Check your homophobia at the door. It's all love, baby.] more.. |

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