Her

I was thinking of what I think the ideal woman for me would be.

Her 

There is nothing sexier, for me at least, than an autonomous woman. A woman that is confident enough to take risks in life and who challenges convention. A woman who allows her dreams to get the better of her. Close enough to allow intimacy, but tolerates distance to maintain desire. A woman who is confident enough with her body and who uses it, not against her man, but for him. A woman who understands stability, trustworthiness and security yet despite this consistently reminds you that she wants you, she doesn't need you. A woman that is reassuring with her actions not her words, that leaves no space for any anxiety or fear. A woman that complements her man and who understands that sharing love, intimacy and romance means that you get out what you put it in.