Death Before Dishonor

Nobody has ever before asked the nuclear family to live all by itself in a box the way we do. With no relatives, no support, we've put it in an impossible situation. ~Margaret Mead

     Its a is an Unwritten Rule you Could Say. The rule states that You as being  a man in the family may be called on from time to time to help the family either finacially, Physically, or for support. This also means That If you are the only son and the Father dies and there are no uncles or grand father that You are now the Head of the House. The Man You have most of the say but you mustn't forget that you may be the head of the house but the women is also the neck she can turn you.

 

     But what if this unwritten rule is the only thing preventing you from a new life. From getting the college degree that you have always wanted. Or perhaps a chane to move over seas to live and work there. Whta if this basic moral Issue is preventing you from saving any money at all it begins to plague you like that of  the black death. This plague will bring you pain, anger, strees, Depression, and lost of your social life what would you do? This family moral that you were raised with do you violate it to better yourt life or do you like the men of the family in the past have done give up there lives to help the family what do you do what would you do? What should you do?