Regrets are the cancer that eats at our soul leaving us too weak to accomplish what we could do today and more regrets tomorrow. Turn "if only" into "I am doing" a great short.
We reproach ourselves for things we think we could have or should have done , but we are not perfect at the end of the day and reproach comes only after time has passed and we look in a different light to what was happening then ...
Emma .... we can't change anything it's gone .. it's in the ether ..
Wishing you happy and healthy tomorrows my friend ❤
Posted 2 Years Ago
2 Years Ago
Thank you, my dear friend and a HAPPY NEW YEAR to you and your world.
Guess we all t.. read moreThank you, my dear friend and a HAPPY NEW YEAR to you and your world.
Guess we all think and feel differently: that's our choice. I believe that we can and should learn by our mistakes more than any wagging of finger or attitude of the saints amongst us whilst invisibly slipping down their own ladders! At least, that is how i admit to doing, being.. a mere human who admits to being just that! :)
2 Years Ago
yes of course we learn everything that way , it's the the things that hurt most that teach us the wi.. read moreyes of course we learn everything that way , it's the the things that hurt most that teach us the wisest lessons and we must not try to influence others who preach ... they may not have had the same life experiences to know how invisible wounds can bleed for a long time.
2 Years Ago
ps;
I have in my bedroom a printed notice on the wallwhich reads " Stop overthinking ... Let.. read moreps;
I have in my bedroom a printed notice on the wallwhich reads " Stop overthinking ... Let it Go "
I cannot tell you how many times i read it ....
It works for me anyway when i feel stressed x
I so understand that, dear Stella. But, but we're not privy to everyone's pain, are we? Behind clos.. read moreI so understand that, dear Stella. But, but we're not privy to everyone's pain, are we? Behind closed doors.. and all that...
2 Years Ago
i know what you are saying ....
Sometimes we hurt not for ourselves but because we are in e.. read morei know what you are saying ....
Sometimes we hurt not for ourselves but because we are in empathy with others
Happy tears are quite rare, Jacob... but on a new year's eve they are beautifully precious. Thank y.. read moreHappy tears are quite rare, Jacob... but on a new year's eve they are beautifully precious. Thank you, dear sir. Hug.
I think, as with all previous new years, all that will change is the date. With all the best intentions many will greet 2024 determined to do this or tgat, change this or that, sponsor a tiger, save a whale, throw loose change at a down and out but by the middle of January the hum drum and stresses of everyday living will have reduced most to the cynical half glass empty harbingers of doom that lived through 2023 and the many years previous, accepting all that is chucked their way as normal!
These past few months I have been thinking lots about the sadly departed Deb and trying to work out how long is long enough to grieve and when I can close the door on this aching heart and pop her beside my mum in a place that is happy for us both...is that odd?
Anyways enough of my waffling. Here's hoping 2024 is a great, happy, healthy year for you and yours my little cream before jam scone munching marvel :))
Take care, hugs from a blustery and wet MK
Thank you dear sir with two lovely ladies. I truly understand what you say for numerous reasons and .. read moreThank you dear sir with two lovely ladies. I truly understand what you say for numerous reasons and feelings. Sometimes the sadder and worse we feel the need to have others feeling better, that means to do one of two things, work a wee miracle or not. Being but human, I can only try. :)
What a great song...if we would find this kind of harmony together...there would be many sunny days.
I have found a sunny day with a sibling...there had never been one there before.
It has created a song in my heart.
j.
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Sometimes it's sadness that finds the right remedy, which is what I needed to share. Bless you for.. read moreSometimes it's sadness that finds the right remedy, which is what I needed to share. Bless you for understanding, accepting the reason for sharing that glorious find. More so, thank you for being such a fine friend, sir jacob. .
Yes, I agree with the sentiment of the song, but your own review comment is currently being checked by VAR, so expect plenty of extra time, but I'll get back to you with its decision asap! 😊
And BOO! Like Scotland in general, we are all waiting for our next sunny day.
Does it feel to you too that the last sunny day we had was way back when, back in the day?
This winter seems to have been going on a bit too long and it can't be, but the memory of my last summers day, I had shorts on and a scraped knee in the picture in my mind! 😊
May 2024 bring you much more of the yummy things, as wealth as more health wealth and happiness, with way less ouchie stuff, like... Well, the stuff that ouchies!
Now remember your Scottish roots tonight dear, erm... English rose and throw open the windows for the bells, to let out the old and bring in the new.
And please be careful if you are having or going to a hootenanny (party) and don't be throwing your back out making shapes on the dance floor, but if you do, I hope you are properly aneathstatize.... Aneathstatise... drunk enough! 😊
Posted 2 Years Ago
2 Years Ago
Laughed me coughing, thank you very much! Aiming for bring left-over food but - full bottles !
2 Years Ago
Oopsies. Me bad for making you laugh instead of smile. I'll be on the naughty step if you need me! ð.. read moreOopsies. Me bad for making you laugh instead of smile. I'll be on the naughty step if you need me! 😊
Ghibran, ' To melt and be like a running brook that sings its melody to the night.'
More short story writer than poet but I try!
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