To fall in or to fall outta love.

Lately, a question quite hard to figure out has been chasing me down. what's harder to do, to fall in or to fall out of love? And what does it tell us about us? It is kinda tricky, most of the people would say a the easiest thing to do is to fall in love, but how do we know we are falling in love If afterwards it's way too easy to fall out of it? 

In one hand we have one problem: If we fall in love to easily, it mint mean that love has lost whatever makes it special, it stops being an unexplained phenomenon and becomes a verb. There's a point when we even think we love the waiter a few feet away because he's got some unique yummy butt and we can't separate the feeling from what we have with the guy we're sleeping with or we want to spend the rest of our lives wih. At the same time, if It's way too hard for us to fall in love, doesn't it make us rock-hard hearted? We find way to deny our feelings and miss one in a lifetime oprtunities. Maybe I've been there, how can I know if I couldn't tell love from infatuation? 

To fall outta love. God, there are so many so-called solutions to achieve the goal of that goal. They say a one night stand, alcohol, ice cream, chick flicks and some cleaned will do it. If we know that's a lie is because we had a hard time getting over someone. If we agree, if was way too easy and it wasn't real. Love love love, maybe in a couple of millennia it won't be a problem. Today, being young plus love equals a hot mess.

 Conclusions? Well, yes, please. If it is as hard to fall in love as it is to fall out of it,we might actually be getting to a point of balance and personal growth. If we properly grief a broken heart and let our walks slowly come down when someone shows up, we might give love it's proper value. As for me, sorry, alcohol and random sex kinda works. However, everytime it works less and less than the time before. I know, it was about time I grew up a little. Love y'all my readers; see ya next time.

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[Shelley Holt-Lowrey]

LOL. Love is so subjective and comes in so many forms. And as we get older I believe it is actually easier to fall in. Perhaps because we are aware of the finite amount of time that remains. Perhaps we remember that some of best moments and the best of ourselves happened during the "in", and perhaps because the longer we live the more we realize that the "out" isn't the end. In fact, after a bit, the whole of being in and out has deepened us in a way most unexpected.
Very interesting subject you bring up here. Much to think on. Must say, your conclusion made me laugh! Kinda works for you. Love it. Thanks for provoking the thoughts.