Fear ! why fear why do we need to scare, we were never scary...........

Fear not fear not, no one will eat us, then why do we need to fear, we are not in jungle too...

I was never scared,

even if i get scared i used to scare of my maternal grand father

and my mother they only used to shout at me or hit me if i do anything wrong.

I grew with shy but never scared to outside world,

i did had stage fear but never to teachers, because i used to study well

Till my wedding i never got scared to any man,  

i was only feared at my x husband, he used to threaten me and was very angry and dominating at me. 

No other person could scare me, 

I saw him, my dear man, to be very angry person and never scary, 

then why we both are scared of others, why we are scared of others and why we are getting influenced by them

we were never fearful to even God, we know we dont do wrong. 

even if we do wrong we are honest in accepting mistakes and clear the fear.

Few people are influencing us so much that our lives are becoming miserable in that fear

not able to take steps,

why do we need to fear in first case, 

do they can kill us, 

then let them do and we also know how to protect us

we are scared of our career business,

 few people in his personal and business took much advantage of him

he was free and helpful, and had good leadership qualities and very good at heart and kind enough,

these qualities let him fail in his personal life and business making his efforts futile, 

seeing him scared, makes me hurt so much.

As far as i know i am not scared and he is never too

some negative energies are acting on us making so fearful effecting our lives

These negative energies will hurt them only, 

never fear for anything when you are doing right,

just be good and do good, no bad will hurt us or haunt us...

this negative energy is hurting his total family,

 and these negative people are eating his money

 and using his money hurting us back, 

how dishonest they are, they will definitely suffer. 

Always doing good helps us.

Our good will protect us. 

I was scared when i left alone, after my divorce

but when i came to know he is with me I never felt scared

and i know he is not scared when he came to know I am with him

these negative energies fear us in thoughts, but when we make ourselves positive and take a step ahead these people will move back

These few days, i was scared, 

why i am getting scared when i was not doing anything wrong.

I am fine, i will take a positive step

I am taking a step to make my dreams come true,

to have my own manufacturing unit, 

and my second baby.

I hope he too does take positive step ahead; God is with you and my sister-in-law,

I just want to say one thing, if some thing or idea is not working, it is not end of world,

I know you have worked as innovative head, why dont you think of setting up another diageo, do 

what you are good at, your efforts should be in right place, it is never effective when you put effort in wrong place, 

i know you are good at doing your previous jobs why dont you focus on it,

I feel he has taken right decision in finding new things, he is getting successful, i know you too will, you explore what is future in, i know there are lot of competitors, but i just only suggest you, try to do which you can with effortless, 

don't do if it has worked in past why cant now, so give a thought dear, you have lot of potential and dare, i never wanted to see you fearful, and there is no one who you can get scared of, other than parents and GOD, so be cautious in doing what your focus should be. 

I dont know how much i can make you proud but i can see you will be proud to parents and will definitely do great things.

Wish you all the best dear honey. 

please dont get scared of anyone, nothing they can do to us...

Jessy Jacob,

with love.... 

missing you and mom, dad, him... 

take care of your health.