My cousin

Aruna

I was missing my cousin, my mom’s brother daughter, she was younger 2yrs to me. We raised and had fun when I went to my maternal grand mother’s house for holidays. She was very innocent and calm going girl never hurt even her parents.

Her mother got her wedding to her uncle, her mom’s brother, who was very old to her and never she lloked him in a different way as just an elder brother/uncle. She cried inside and wheni went her wedding she shared her pain to me, that I would have been very happy to marry a rickshaw waala rather her own uncle, I do understand it was easy for her mother to get her weddign to her own brother no dowry and he would take her nicely, but she got crushed when she was wedding her own uncle.

Now she had 2 kids, adjusted to her life and husband, and I see her moved on without hurting her parents anymore. But I thought her mother would have understood her in making her wedding to other than her brother.

I saw her after few years when I went to my brother wedding, she came to see me and she was with her same face, talked to me, I was so happy to see her.

Even my mother want me to get married me to her brother and even now torturing me why you have not accepted him, I said when I was in college that I am not seeing him as in husband place, I don’t want him to see me same.

My mother understood me and didn’t say any word then.

I am very against with this uncle wedding to their daughters. I know few people like to marry uncles but few people never like their uncles to see as husband.

I just shared this story, few girls with patience can achieve better life and few being open make their lives heaven at the right time.

But I haven’t seen people behave insanely by spoiling so many lives and disturbing their own mind, though other person is not interested. These innocent people know how to behave and God is with them to make their life better.



Jessy Jacob