how a kid to be raised

Few parents feel proud if kid is studying good with high grades. But that is not ending that your kid is fine. As a mother i never made my son to study well, but i want him to be responsible with a degree and stand on his feet. If we make the kid to earn his bread with a hard-working intent that will make him or her independent without depending on parents or grand parents properties. If you go still further seeing their attitude, is hyper, tells lies uses shortcuts, never respects elder, and narrow minded, without caring his family, and there are so many negative things which kids can have at childhood and eventually they become their attitude and character. So, it is very important in seeing the behavior how he is taking in good from surroundings. 

When you make nice being with responsibility and dreams with great things to happen to them you are done. 

If the kid is overgenerous let him be with in his hand where he has to earn and spend, and you can tell him spend the money where it is worth, giving everything or to everybody doesnt make you good, it turns you bad that you are getting or making others lazy and cheat. 

If the kid is over studious that he neglects personal life, then it is the caution at very young age to make him get interested in leading family. else they suffer or regret that he ignored family and kids. 

If the kid is not changing behavior and focus on self, getting ruined, no sooner you need to mend his ways by explaining or showing the result of being wrong. 

If the kid is over smart in cheating parents then it is great bad happening to family and you need to sit with them and monitor everything. because here they are get addicting to sex, drink and drugs. 

Sometimes the parents does wrong by giving much freedom to kids thinking they are good, and learning, you must stop doing that, and you are spoiling them. 

And if you trust overly your kids and they turn bad, then you are doing task like teaching a leech not to suck the blood and you see your kid has gone very far and cannot get him back because he has misused your love to become criminal. You blinded yourself to the kids wrongdoing. 

Everyone is learning and keep learning we don't know what situations children can undergo, so keep watching them. 

Jessy Jacob.