Covert Manipulation : PUA

Covert Manipulation : PUA

A Story by Rafia Noor Purbita
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The dark seduction strategy from ears to bed

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Pickup Artist Technique : an unfamiliar terminology of course. Lets talk about that. PUA is a part of covert manipulation strategy which is often used by man .  The objective is how fast you can make a person in bed with you ranging from an unknown stranger to known friend.

But to get an idea about that dark part of psychology ,lets get to know what covert manipulation is or what you understand by manipulation. Manipulation is an act where you move something in a way you desire and in a destination you define or set goal. As a  learner of psychology and after completing NLP  ,i wonder how dangerously we use our steps and how much unsafe we are to survive .Even we are not aware of it. Covert manipulation is something where you make a bond with the listener and you move their mind,affect their thoughts,change their emotions and drive in the way you want them to be . So be careful when you find a good or popular speaker around you. Especially from those who have the amazing capability to make bonding with strangers or group of people in moments. Covert manipulators make people attracted fast .Maybe its a humour,motivation ,powerful or attractive words ,positivity,negative approaches or mirroring the mind of the target person infront. In covert manipulation ,the only and ultimate goal is to make a person your listener and create a connection. It's very easy to do with friends,families. But it's not so tough to do with strangers as most of the people don't have boundaries and people are too lazy to do their inner self work. After creating the bonding with target what they do is that they bias the listener to turn off their(listener)  analytical mind. And often they transfer the state of listener  from logical,critical,analytical to an imaginary state of thought. The person can use words like “if it become like this,”  “just imagine”,  “what if” , “what will be” etc . Thus, it's not very tough for the listener to lose control of the mind state from the present grounded position. Here the manipulator move mind state and takes over you using a different frequency that discard your own frequency and here in this case i can call it imagination. Over time they get control of your mind state. They will trigger connections anyway, either irritating you or making you release happy hormones. No matter what the way is ,just remember that a connection is always threatening and be careful about connections if you are not enough good player to play the battle. And in course of time ,they will use critical words to question your pre-existing thought process, your pre existing pattern and way of feeling emotions and you are going to question your existence and it will create enough self doubt inside you. Self doubt is the starting point you ultimately give the key to the manipulator . And after that you are in trap and they move you to their desired thought process and actions they want you to be in and they want you to do it . So people without locks and boundaries are going to be enslaved easily . Now it will be easy to understand  PUA. Here, strategies are almost the same in a different way and the goal is to seduce a particular person for unethical sexual desire. This is a popular tactic used by psychopaths,fuckboys and more common in men than women . Showing off of confidence, self-respect, proving superiority over target or showing off of personality are often used as weapons. Sometimes it involves safe physical touch,building up a sensation of safety and security. This superiority of the manipulator easily takes control over trust of the objected person. With time the intensity of supremacy increases  and target get enslaved.

 Though the major population of PUA users is men ,the female users of PUA are not invisible and lots of women are using that . It is unethical to try to get over people or to try superiority or supremacy tricks for an immoral purpose.  The terminology of influencing or exploiting is quite unethical and does not fulfill any authenticity for healthy human society.  So PUA is a kind of game of supremacy on someone ,to enslave the target person for sexual desires…Human DNA is primitive. We are born with a part of human nature which is dark . We choose life .Everything is energy either positive or negative . We cannot remove dark essence ,the same way we cannot remove dark psychology. We can just choose what we want to resonate with . So if you find knowledge in this article and want to stay independent ,create boundaries and build up a clean environment floating universe for you  in the sea of darkness. 

© 2025 Rafia Noor Purbita


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So... the author is definitely not a pro:

1. They don't know the font to use.
2. They don't use whitespace between paragraphs.
3. They didn't proofread to remove misplaced spaces.
4. NLP is a pseudoscientific approach to communication, not science.
5. The statement "Manipulation is an act where you move something in a way you desire and in a destination you define or set goal," is a misstatement, leaving out the important part. In psychology, manipulation is the deceptive or underhanded attempt to influence or control another person's behavior or thoughts "for personal gain, often at their expense."

In short, this was NOT written by a pro, and doesn't meet professional standards.

Posted 3 Months Ago


1 of 1 people found this review constructive.




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So... the author is definitely not a pro:

1. They don't know the font to use.
2. They don't use whitespace between paragraphs.
3. They didn't proofread to remove misplaced spaces.
4. NLP is a pseudoscientific approach to communication, not science.
5. The statement "Manipulation is an act where you move something in a way you desire and in a destination you define or set goal," is a misstatement, leaving out the important part. In psychology, manipulation is the deceptive or underhanded attempt to influence or control another person's behavior or thoughts "for personal gain, often at their expense."

In short, this was NOT written by a pro, and doesn't meet professional standards.

Posted 3 Months Ago


1 of 1 people found this review constructive.


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Rafia Noor Purbita
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